tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post5604133753837319103..comments2024-03-08T17:03:37.156+08:00Comments on Born a Dragon, Raised a Tiger: To Coach or to Counsel? How to Help Your Child Achieve Their GoalsEileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10170137713476168931noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-52858498437741558282014-10-05T20:17:13.067+08:002014-10-05T20:17:13.067+08:00Loved this post, its very educative and informativ...Loved this post, its very educative and informative at the same time. The differentiation of the two and effectively using them to the benefit of a child or mentee is key to achieving the desired results.Lessonzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01749173668480866403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-78810832334909855072014-10-03T03:55:01.447+08:002014-10-03T03:55:01.447+08:00Coaching would be my choice. At least now I know t...Coaching would be my choice. At least now I know that if it fails, I should use counseling.Deidre M. Simpsonhttp://theparentisaschool.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-4517861989575104152014-10-03T01:18:04.999+08:002014-10-03T01:18:04.999+08:00I liked the phrase of finding a "balance of p...I liked the phrase of finding a "balance of praise and constructive criticism". It's easier to swallow the pill of constructive criticism if we trust and respect the person it's coming from. And that's usually when they have a history of giving us praise and we understand the criticism is coming from a place of wanting to support us to succeed. Christinahttp://www.followchristinascamera.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-82922390720436805852014-10-02T23:13:50.890+08:002014-10-02T23:13:50.890+08:00It's better for me to counsel a kid since it g...It's better for me to counsel a kid since it gives them an enlightenment that they should not lose hope. We may set an example to them that we also do fail in things that we can't easily achieve but to encourage them to do better and give them great advice can boost their self-confidence up to the highest bar! :DJonas Labagalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00998310326123775300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-40539506640660502242014-10-01T08:13:24.190+08:002014-10-01T08:13:24.190+08:00We have never try counseling but read a lot about ...We have never try counseling but read a lot about it and how it helps with kids and couple. Jessica Cassidyhttp://www.homecookingwithjessy.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-7748071637761293022014-10-01T03:18:01.705+08:002014-10-01T03:18:01.705+08:00great tips! I think coaching is so much better tha...great tips! I think coaching is so much better than counseling! Katrina Kroeplinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06377672671983401185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-30023882480415942452014-09-30T22:49:21.431+08:002014-09-30T22:49:21.431+08:00This is a highly informative post. You have enligh...This is a highly informative post. You have enlighten your readers on how to coach and counsel their children. papalenghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17149755141923025358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-27691501233570979062014-09-30T20:06:00.156+08:002014-09-30T20:06:00.156+08:00Great informative article about couching and couns...Great informative article about couching and counseling that can be applied at home or in the work place. I find myself doing more counseling when I should be doing more coaching. Thanks for bringing that to my attention!Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12681233398991895382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-46270669817761549212014-09-30T12:36:51.310+08:002014-09-30T12:36:51.310+08:00This is a very deep reading especially when it com...This is a very deep reading especially when it comes to applying these tips to our kids. It is important that we approach the training we give our kids the right way! There are instances that you will need to apply coaching and/or counseling. Pamela :: Still Dating My Spousehttp://www.stilldatingmyspouse.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-88706720414215739122014-09-30T09:39:31.907+08:002014-09-30T09:39:31.907+08:00Thank you so much for these great tips sis Ei. He...Thank you so much for these great tips sis Ei. Here at home, hubby helps our daughter and I help our son and we see to it that we help them in every possible way. Chubskulit Rosehttp://www.sailorsmusings.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-64567188247591837612014-09-30T09:09:58.708+08:002014-09-30T09:09:58.708+08:00One of the things that is different about coaching...One of the things that is different about coaching and counselling from a business perspective. as opposed to parenting, is that in business you can sometimes hit a point of failure where you give up on a employee or just decide he isn't right for the organization. In parenting you never give up and there is not really any such thing as being wrong for the family organization.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14291236742674605851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-10336218274612168962014-09-30T08:36:06.555+08:002014-09-30T08:36:06.555+08:00Great list, there is a saying "The best gift ...Great list, there is a saying "The best gift you can give to your children is to follow their dream." Teach our kids to stay positive and go for their dreams without giving up.Travel Questhttp://www.travelquest-ny.com/2014/09/titanic-museum-pigeon-forge.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-54401279357042958692014-09-30T07:12:11.276+08:002014-09-30T07:12:11.276+08:00This is so good! I'm really glad I read it. I ...This is so good! I'm really glad I read it. I have a 16 year old being homeschooled now and I need to step in and coach him sometimes. And there's been other times we need to counsel him. And keeping them on a leash with some slack is exactly what I try to do!jody cowanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06113985101799601852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-44327355127934739012014-09-30T05:47:45.132+08:002014-09-30T05:47:45.132+08:00Like Lenie above I have never really thought about...Like Lenie above I have never really thought about this but when I saw it in your post it clicked...Goals are absolutely dreams with deadlines. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-15813873884957659182014-09-30T05:37:51.405+08:002014-09-30T05:37:51.405+08:00I went through coaching school and the skills I le...I went through coaching school and the skills I learned have helped me so much - more than any counceling I've had so far. Jenn Brockmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01813247440878199916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-62860927741274029932014-09-30T03:22:14.014+08:002014-09-30T03:22:14.014+08:00Good advice on how to coach and counsel your child...Good advice on how to coach and counsel your child. My daughter is 26 now, but this post reminded me of how often I found something in training I took in the corporate world, especially that related to dealing with people, that applied to parenting. And alternatively, I remember finding things in a parenting course that I could apply to the workplace. Donna Jankehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16654611289969837061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-34674064442172546312014-09-30T02:19:25.347+08:002014-09-30T02:19:25.347+08:00Great blog, We all need to know when it is time t...Great blog, We all need to know when it is time to coach, or counsel someone, even children. It can be a fine line to walk sometimes.W.A. Rushohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04313458212200821633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-7076130309876650092014-09-29T21:20:22.751+08:002014-09-29T21:20:22.751+08:00i guess you can apply both? coaching and counselin...i guess you can apply both? coaching and counseling is what our child needs in order to help them with a good head start.Novahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07538765336102242942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-87314765338718637242014-09-29T20:52:50.763+08:002014-09-29T20:52:50.763+08:00A very interesting approach to apply these busines...A very interesting approach to apply these business skills to parenting!Karen @ From the GardenTablehttp://fromthegardentable.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-76661122982742179752014-09-29T20:31:17.834+08:002014-09-29T20:31:17.834+08:00I hadn't thought about the very real differenc...I hadn't thought about the very real differences between coaching and counseling. Parents need to be careful not to be constantly telling their children what to do, especially as they get older and are away from home. I feel that today many "helicopter" parents aren't doing their offspring a favor by being constantly in touch. Children need to discover what being an adult is like gradually.Beth Niebuhrhttp://encorewomen.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-26735305916692387152014-09-29T20:26:09.650+08:002014-09-29T20:26:09.650+08:00This is very informative post and the parents who ...This is very informative post and the parents who are experiencing this face of life for the first time need such informative , the most. <br />I was not aware of counselling and coaching before. <br />I like S.M.A.R.T goals. It is nice that you are helping your kids and encouraging them and giving them best values. voiceofsudhnotihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17385680414772682064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-20897497395048880202014-09-29T19:16:02.044+08:002014-09-29T19:16:02.044+08:00Aio, great read. Made me realize I coach, my wife ...Aio, great read. Made me realize I coach, my wife counsels. Kire Sdyorhttp://www.yourfamilyshouldhaveashow.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-49630633782768703032014-09-29T16:48:33.543+08:002014-09-29T16:48:33.543+08:00This made for good reading - I like the way you di...This made for good reading - I like the way you differentiated between a skill issue and a will issue. I also like the poster - Goals are dreams with deadlines. Nicely put.<br />LenieLeniehttp://frugalforeveryone.canoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-973854446825773390.post-86869922688390615932014-09-29T09:56:10.339+08:002014-09-29T09:56:10.339+08:00This is was very interesting and informative. I re...This is was very interesting and informative. I really never differentiated between coaching and counseling but wow did that hit home... coaching is a skill issue and counseling is a will issue. Completely different issues require different approaches.jacquiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07319760774255347751noreply@blogger.com